Attachment & Suffering


 Swapna K

Attachment

We are always attached to many things knowing or unknowingly which later converts into fear and worries. There are various forms of attachments, if we start recognizing them we can work on them and come out of suffering. So start knowing our innerside.

Types of attachments

1) One is- attachment with kids, attachment with Ghar, gadi, Paisa, bunglow which we can see it normal way.... but the second form of attachment is - 2) Attachment with ego, attachment with beliefs, attachment with thoughts, attachment with past and future, attachment with body, these are normally not visible but keep working silently.

How it works

Those attachments become our thought patterns and  then it converts into possessiveness and eventually it makes us blind n weak.  Small changes in prakruti(sansar/life) create ripples in our mind, and attachments do not allow us to accept those changes. Attachment is tht seed which later grows into fear n worries.

Most common attachment

Attachment with kids is the most common problem with many people. We think how will they survive without us? We become doer, we become overprotective, we become owner of their life in great IGNORANCE. Attachments with kids makes us to expect from them and manytimes it becomes burden for them. In all, attachment brings storm in our life.

Stay connected with yourself

 So detachment becomes very important. We should remain conected but not attached. We should detach  ourself from these false attachments and should get attached with KNOWLEDGE and PARAMATMA with the help of GURU.

Detach yourself from everything

KNOWLEDGE brings us back in our true nature tht is SATCHITANAND. CONSCIOUSNESS helps to detach ourself from identifications with kids. ACCEPTANCE of changable prakruti n our true nature gives us power to dissolve Attachments.

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